Episode 144 – The Courage to Be Fully You

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Hi Soul Friends, it’s Tannaz Hosseinpour, and welcome back to another short solo episode of Minutes on Growth.

Before we begin, I just want to share a quick announcement.
The Self-Worth, Self-Care, and Sisterhood Retreat in Tuscany is officially live—and we now have only 4 spots left!
It’s happening August 18–23, and it’s going to be a truly sacred experience for those looking to embody their Divine Feminine, heal in safe sisterhood, and reconnect with their inner wisdom through practices like yoga, breathwork, nervous system regulation, and energy healing.

If this is calling to you, check out the link in the show notes. It really is first come, first served—and I would love to hold space with you there.

Now let’s shift gears to our topic of the week. Today, I want to talk about something that’s been coming up a lot lately—in client sessions, in my personal reflections, and in collective energy—
Authenticity.

Not the curated, aesthetic version of authenticity.
But the real, raw kind.
The kind that asks us to be seen as we are.
To stop editing.
To stop shrinking.
To stop performing for a life we don’t actually want.

There’s a powerful quote in the Bhagavad Gita that says:
“It is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else’s life with perfection.”

Just let that sink in.
We live in a world that’s constantly telling us who we should be.
And if we’re not deeply rooted in who we are, it becomes way too easy to start living for someone else’s expectations.

Society’s expectations.
Our parents’.
And sometimes, we’re not even aware of the parts of us that are doing this.

There’s often a part of us that’s been conditioned to fulfill the unmet desires of our parents—to live a life that gives them peace, pride, or protection.
And I want to be clear: so much of this comes from love.
Parents want the best for their kids. They want to protect them from the pain they went through.
So they give in to societal standards, hoping it’ll provide safety and success.

But somewhere along the way, that well-intentioned conditioning can interfere with the unique song that lives inside us.
And without realizing it, we start suppressing parts of ourselves—
Parts that, if brought to the surface, would actually guide us toward the highest version of our destiny.

The Parts Within Us (IFS Perspective)

This is why I love working with Internal Family Systems—or IFS.
IFS teaches us that we’re not just one single identity—we are made up of many parts.

We have parts that want to be liked.
Parts that want to protect us.
Parts that are scared.
Parts that still carry the wounds of our past.

None of these parts are bad.
They all exist for a reason.
They helped us survive.

But authenticity means learning how to see these parts.
To listen to them.
To integrate them—not to exile or shame them.

And when we lead from Self—with a capital S—we lead from a place that is calm, curious, confident, connected, and compassionate.
That Self lives beneath all the noise. And it’s always been there.
Your work is simply to return to it.

Your Unique Blueprint

And here’s the thing—you were never meant to look or sound like anyone else.
You came into this world with a unique blueprint.
Your birth chart, your human design, your lived experiences, your gifts—none of it is a coincidence.
Nothing about you was random.

So trying to squeeze yourself into someone else’s version of success or happiness will always leave you feeling disconnected.

You weren’t meant to imitate.
You were meant to express.

Why It’s Hard—and Why It’s Worth It

Now, showing up like that? That takes courage.
Because it’s asking us to step out of our comfort zone.
And our comfort zone is where our brain feels safest.

Your brain isn’t trying to sabotage you—it’s trying to protect you.
It says, “Let’s stay where it’s familiar. Let’s not be too visible. Let’s not take up too much space.”

But the truth is—when we choose authenticity…
When we say yes to our full expression, to our truth, to our gifts…
That’s when life starts to feel nourishing and expansive.

That’s when the people, opportunities, and experiences that are truly meant for us begin to align.

You Don’t Need to Be Perfect

And as cliché as it sounds:
You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to step out of your own way and allow yourself to be… you.

One of my favorite quotes is from Sophia Bush:

“You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress, simultaneously.”

Let that be your reminder today.
You can love who you are now and still be evolving.
You can be proud of where you are and still want more.
You can hold the both/and with grace.

Your Invitation

So I’ll leave you with this:
What part of yourself have you been hiding?
What would happen if you let it be seen?

Your authentic self—the real you—isn’t something you need to become.
It’s something you return to.
Again and again and again.

Thank you for spending this moment with me.
If this episode resonated, please share it with someone who needs a reminder that they’re allowed to take up space and be fully, beautifully themselves.

And don’t forget to hit subscribe, leave a quick review, and check the show notes for more tools on this journey.

Until next time, keep choosing you.

Episode 143 – Personalizing Your Healing Journey with Kate Champion

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Episode 142 – Building Your Support System

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Hi Soul Friends, it’s Tannaz Hosseinpour, and welcome back to another solo episode of Minutes on Growth.

Before we dive in, I have a really exciting announcement to share with you! this ones for the ladies…
The Self-Worth, Self-Care, and Sisterhood Retreat in Tuscany is officially launched, and early bird pricing is active until May 5th! You can check out all the details in the show notes below.

We’ve already had quite a few inquiries coming in, so if this is something you’d like to experience this summer, don’t wait too long. This retreat is going to be such a beautiful opportunity to tap into your Divine Feminine, to deepen your self-esteem, self-worth, and nervous system regulation. We’re going to dive into powerful work around trauma processing, balancing energies, and embodying your most authentic self—all in a safe, supportive, sacred space.

If this is resonating then I highly recommend checking it out because i would absolutely love to have you there with us

Okay, now let’s get into today’s topic: the importance of safe communities.

The Science of Connection

Did you know that the longest-running study on happiness—the Harvard Study of Adult Development, which has been going for over 80 years now—found that the quality of our relationships is the strongest predictor of our happiness and health?
Not our income.
Not our career success.
Not our achievements.
Our relationships.

Strong, safe, supportive relationships are what nourish us. They protect our nervous systems. They expand our resilience.
And this makes so much sense—because we are tribal people by nature. We are wired for connection. We thrive when we feel seen, supported, and valued within a community.

Research on Friendship and Support Systems

And it’s not just Harvard’s findings.
Research published by William Chopik in his article “Associations among relational values, support, health, and well-being across the adult lifespan” found that friendships become even more important to well-being as we age, even sometimes more than family relationships.
Friendships are the relationships we choose. They’re based on shared trust, values, and emotional reciprocity.

Another study by Julianne Holt-Lunstad in a 2010 meta-analysis of Social Relationships and Mortality Risk showed that having strong social connections boosts longevity and even strengthens immune function. Meanwhile, a lack of strong relationships can have a health impact equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

So if you’ve been feeling the pull to seek out deeper connections or to nurture your existing friendships—you’re not imagining it. Your soul and your nervous system are craving it.

In fact, loneliness today has become such a widespread issue that it’s being called an epidemic.When I was living in Japan, I witnessed firsthand how culturally, many people experienced loneliness very differently than we might in the West—it was often quieter, more internalized.And during the pandemic, this loneliness skyrocketed across the country.There’s a study I want to mention—it was conducted among over 27,000 Japanese workers during COVID-19, published by Yusuke Konno and colleagues.They found a powerful link between loneliness and psychological distress.Even after adjusting for factors like family time, friendships, and social media interaction, people who reported feeling lonely had a 29 to 36 times greater risk of experiencing psychological distress.Think about that for a moment: 29 to 36 times higher risk.And the researchers emphasized that intervention was urgently needed—because loneliness wasn’t just a feeling; it was impacting mental health, stress levels, and even overall functioning.Even simple factors—like having no friends to call, no one to ask for help, eating meals alone—were all linked to higher levels of distress.Loneliness is heavy on the nervous system. It’s not just an emotional experience—it becomes a physiological one.

I’ve also had so many conversations lately—especially with new parents—who are feeling isolated. They tell me,
“Where’s the village? Where is the support system we were supposed to have?”

And it’s heartbreaking, but it’s also a reflection of the way our modern world has evolved.
Where once we naturally had built-in communities, today we have to be intentional about creating them.
We have to be deliberate about building the villages we need.

So now, the question becomes:
How can we intentionally create the village we need?
How can we become that village for each other?

How to Be a Better Friend as an Adult

And this is where we move from wishing for it to becoming it.
Because when we embody what we want to receive, we naturally attract it.

I recently shared a post about this—simple but powerful ways to put effort into adult friendships:

  • Send check-in messages: “Hey, I was thinking about you. How have you been?”
  • Schedule catch-up calls: “I miss our chats. When can we catch up?”
  • Plan intentional meet-ups: Coffee, a walk, a quick dinner—it doesn’t have to be complicated.
  • Send thoughtful articles, notes, or memes when something reminds you of them.
  • Celebrate their milestones: Big or small.
  • Be present during conversations: Not just physically, but emotionally.
  • Share your own updates too: Vulnerability builds connection.
  • Support their passions: Show interest in what lights them up.

When we do these small things, we create an energy of reciprocity and trust.
We build safe communities one interaction at a time.

And if your current circle doesn’t reflect the depth you’re craving?
That’s okay.
It just means it’s time to courageously look outside your usual spaces. To meet people who are aligned with the values, visions, and energies you want to cultivate.

This is exactly why we host retreats like the Tuscany Self-Worth, Self-Care, and Sisterhood Retreat.
Because sometimes, the connections your soul is seeking aren’t found in your hometown or your usual circles—they’re found in sacred spaces, with people who are also saying yes to their growth, to their expansion, to their higher selves.

Closing Reflection

So today, my invitation for you is this:

  • Where can you start being the kind of friend you wish you had?
  • Where can you start building your village?
  • Where can you show up more fully, more intentionally, and more lovingly—for yourself and others?

Because safe community isn’t something we stumble into.
It’s something we create—with every small, loving action.

Thank you for joining me today. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might be longing for deeper connection too.
And don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss next week’s episode—and check out the show notes for all the details on the Tuscany retreat.

Until next time, keep nurturing your growth, and keep building your village.

Episode 141 – Healing Through Energy with Natasha Joy Price

In this 29-minute episode, I sit down with Natasha Joy Price, former property lawyer turned energy healer, Reiki master, and past life regression practitioner. After a life-changing spiritual awakening post-childbirth, Natasha found her calling in the world of energy work.

We explore how passion is a powerful antidote to burnout, how her legal and spiritual worlds harmoniously coexist, and why understanding past lives can unlock your fullest potential. 

Natasha also shares insights from her new book, The Red Magus, a mystical journey through past life healing and soul purpose.If you’ve ever felt torn between logic and intuition, this episode will speak to both sides of your soul.

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Episode 140 – Stop Waiting, Start Becoming

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Hi soul friends, it’s Tannaz Hosseinpour, and welcome back to another solo episode of Minutes on Growth.

So, we’re in Aries season right now, which, astrologically, is all about bold action, initiation, and fire energy. And I’ve been feeling it. I’ve also been seeing it come up in conversations with clients and friends; the idea of doing, of starting, of taking inspired action… and how much resistance can come up around it.

Here’s the truth: you do not need to know everything before you begin.

I see this so often—someone wants to start a business, a new project, a new habit. And the first thing they say is, “I just don’t know enough yet. I need to take one more course. I need to feel more ready.” But what if I told you that confidence doesn’t come before action…it comes from it?

Let me say that again: confidence is built by doing. By showing up, even when you don’t have all the answers. By failing, adjusting, trying again. That’s where real confidence lives in the repetition, in the showing up, in the experience.

One of my clients was working through a certification program and she kept stopping and starting. Every time she’d get a little momentum, she’d let it go again. And then the stories would creep in:
“I’m not a good student.”
“Maybe I’m not made for this.”
“I just don’t feel motivated.”

And I get it. It’s hard when you’ve promised yourself something and then you don’t follow through. But here’s what I told her, and what I’ll share with you too:
Discipline is an act of self-love.
Motivation is great, but it’s fleeting; it’s based on how we feel.
Discipline is based on what we value. It’s self-integrity. It says, “I matter. My word matters.”

Every time we make a promise to ourselves and we don’t follow through, we chip away at our self-trust and self-confidence. But every time we do show up for ourselves, even in a small way, we build that trust again. We’re telling our nervous system: “Hey, you can count on me.”

Eventually, this client committed to making a schedule—breaking the work into small pieces. And module by module, she did it. Then I got a message from her saying, “Wait a second—I’m loving this. I feel so good about myself. I’m showing up differently.” And that’s it right there.

What changed wasn’t the program. It wasn’t the content. It was the action she chose to take. It built her self-efficacy, which, in psychology, is just a fancy word for the belief that you can handle whatever’s in front of you.

And self-efficacy matters. Studies have shown that the more self-efficacy you have, the more likely you are to keep going, to try new things, to handle stress, and even to succeed in your career.

Now here’s where I want to make a quick distinction:

  • Self-worth is innate. You’re born with it. Nothing you do or don’t do can take it away. it’s not earned, its remembered
  • But self-confidence and self-efficacy—those are things you build.

Self-esteem is made up of self-confidence and self-efficacy. So yes, we can work on it. It’s in your hands.

And when you start taking action—even small, imperfect action—you’re showing the universe: “I’m in. I’m ready. I’m not just talking about it; I’m doing it.”

That’s when things begin to shift. Because the universe responds to energy. And your energy changes when you take inspired action.

This is the energy of Aries season. It’s time to stop over-preparing and start doing. You don’t need to fake confidence, you’ll create it. You’ll embody it.

So if you’ve been putting something off because you’re waiting to “feel ready,” this is your gentle nudge from me to take one small step today. Just one. Start the thing. Speak the truth. Sign up. Press publish. Whatever it is.

You don’t need to have it all figured out. But you do need to move.

Because that’s how we grow. That’s how we evolve. That’s how we become the version of ourselves we’re dreaming about; by being her, not waiting for her.

Thank you for tuning in today. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who’s been sitting on an idea or waiting for the “right” moment; this might be the nudge they need.

And make sure you hit that subscribe button so you never miss a new episode when it drops each week.

If you feel called to, I’d also love for you to leave a review. It helps the podcast reach more soul friends around the world who are on this journey of growth with us.

Until next time, take inspired action and trust in the magic it creates.

Episode 139 – Connecting with Spirit Teachers with Michael McAdams

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Episode 138 – Change the Story, Change Your Life

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Hi Soul Friends, it’s Tannaz Hosseinpour, and welcome back to another short solo episode of the Minutes on Growthpodcast.

Today, I want to talk about something that can completely shift the way you experience life:
The power of storytelling and meaning-making.

Because here’s the truth: It’s not always the problem that’s the problem—it’s the story we’ve created about the problem that holds us back.

Everything we experience is filtered through the meaning we assign to it—and that meaning is shaped by our past, our conditioning, and our subconscious beliefs.

In this episode, we’re going to:

  • Explore how narrative therapy helps us separate ourselves from our problems.
  • Understand the power of meaning-making and how it shapes our reality.
  • Learn how to identify the limiting stories we’re telling ourselves.
  • Discover practical tools to rewrite our inner narrative in a way that empowers and expands us.

So let’s begin.

We are all natural storytellers. From the moment we wake up to the moment we fall asleep, we are constantly making meaning out of the events in our lives.

But the question is: Is the meaning we assign to things empowering us or limiting us?

Let’s take an example.

Imagine two people lose their job on the same day.

Person A says:
“I got fired. This is proof that I’m not good enough, I’ll never be successful, and I should just settle for less.”

Person B says:
“I got fired. This is the universe redirecting me toward something better. This is an opportunity to realign with a career that truly excites me.”

Same event. Two completely different meanings.

And because of those different meanings, these two people will experience the same event in completely different ways.

Person A might spiral into self-doubt, hesitate to apply for new opportunities, and ultimately prove their limiting story to be true.
Person B might take inspired action, network, and find a career path even more aligned with their purpose.

This is how powerful the meaning we assign to things is.

So ask yourself:

  • What meaning am I attaching to the things that happen in my life?
  • Am I framing my experiences in a way that limits me or expands me?

Narrative Therapy: You Are Not Your Story

Narrative therapy is based on the idea that we are separate from our problems.

It helps us realize that we have the power to rewrite our experiences by changing the story we tell ourselves.

Here’s a simple way to start practicing narrative therapy in your own life:

  1. Externalize the problem
    • Instead of saying “I am an anxious person”, say “I am experiencing anxiety, but I am not anxiety.”
    • Instead of saying “I am stuck”, say “I am feeling stuck in this moment, but I am capable of movement.”

When we separate ourselves from the issue, we give ourselves the power to change it.

  1. Question the story
    • Where did this story come from?
    • Is this my belief, or was it conditioned into me by society, family, or past experiences?
    • Is this the only possible story, or is there another way to see this?
  2. Rewrite the meaning
    • What is a more empowering meaning I can assign to this situation?
    • How can I reframe this experience in a way that serves me?

Shifting Your Story in Real Time

Let me share another real-life example.

I once had a client who was struggling with rejection. Anytime she wasn’t chosen for a promotion she would tell herself:

“This always happens to me. I’m not worthy. I’ll never be enough.”

She had built an entire narrative around rejection—one that reinforced self-doubt and unworthiness.

So we got curious with it – what was another way to look at the rejection?

What if we reframed it to mean that she wasn’t being “rejected.” She was being redirected.

The meaning she had assigned to rejection was: “I’m not good enough.”
But she could just as easily shift that to: “This is not meant for me. The right opportunity is still on its way.”

We spent time and energy embedding this new belief in her subconscious mind

And the moment she started rewriting the meaning of her experiences, everything shifted.

And you can do this too.

Practical Steps to Rewrite Your Story

  1. Become aware of the dominant story you’re telling yourself.
    • What is the common theme in your inner dialogue?
    • If your life was a book, what would the title of your story be?
    • Is this story limiting you or empowering you?
  2. Find the origin of the story.
    • Who taught you this?
    • Was this belief passed down to you by parents, culture, or past experiences?
    • Does this belief still serve the person you are today?
  3. Create a new, empowering meaning.
    • What is another way to look at this situation?
    • If your best friend had this experience, what advice would you give them?
    • What new belief will allow you to feel more at peace and in alignment?
  4. Reinforce the new story through action.
    • Your subconscious will need proof that this new story is true.
    • Start looking for evidence that supports your new belief.
    • Surround yourself with people, books, and experiences that reinforce this new narrative.

At the end of the day, we are not just experiencers of life—we are storytellers of life.

The meaning we assign to events shapes our emotions, our actions, and ultimately, our future.

So today, I invite you to ask yourself:

  • What story have I been telling myself about who I am?
  • What new meaning can I give to my experiences that will empower me?
  • How can I rewrite my narrative into one of growth, resilience, and self-trust?

Because you are not your past. You are not your fears.
You are the author of your own story. And you can turn the page at any moment.

Thank you for being here today. If this episode resonated with you, let me know—I’d love to hear the story you’re rewriting. Until next time, take care and keep growing.

Episode 137 – Navigating Burnout and Wellness with Hope Pedraza

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Episode 136 – Spring Cleaning for the Mind, Body, and Soul

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Hi Soul Friends, it’s Tannaz Hosseinpour, and welcome back to another short solo episode of the Minutes on Growth podcast. Today, we’re talking about spring cleaning—but not just in the way we usually think about it. Yes, we’re going to talk about clearing out the clutter in our homes, but we’re also going to go deeper. Because spring isn’t just about refreshing our physical spaces—it’s about detoxing our minds, beliefs, and relationships as well.

Spring is a season of renewal, and the spring equinox is the perfect time to step into a new version of ourselves by letting go of what no longer serves us. Today, we’re going to explore:

  • How decluttering our physical space impacts our energy
  • How to detox limiting beliefs that are keeping us stagnant
  • How to take inventory of our relationships and create space for more reciprocal, aligned connections

So let’s begin.

Decluttering Your Physical Space = Clearing Energetic Blockages

Look around your home right now. What are you holding on to that it’s time to let go of?

Maybe it’s clothes that don’t fit anymore—not just physically, but energetically. Maybe it’s items from your past self, from a version of you that no longer exists. Maybe you’re holding on to things “just in case,” but in reality, they’re just anchoring you to an old identity.

Spring cleaning isn’t just about organizing—it’s about making space for expansion. When we let go of what no longer aligns with who we are today, we create room for new energy to flow in. And I know this can be hard, especially when we attach meaning to objects.

For example, if you’re holding on to clothes that don’t fit anymore in the hopes that one day you’ll wear them again, I invite you to ask yourself:

  • Am I holding on to an old version of myself?
  • Am I resisting accepting myself as I am today?

Because true transformation doesn’t come from shame or judgment. We don’t change by criticizing ourselves into a new version—we change by accepting where we are and moving forward with love.

Trust that if and when the time comes, you can always call new things into your life. But for now, release the old and create space for something new.

Detoxing Your Limiting Beliefs

Now, let’s go deeper.

We declutter our homes, but how often do we declutter our minds?

Take a moment to reflect: What limiting beliefs are you still carrying into this new season?

  • Are you telling yourself I should be doing this or I can’t do that?
  • Are you looking for evidence against yourself instead of evidence for your potential?
  • Where are these beliefs coming from? Are they truly yours, or were they conditioned into you by family, society, or past experiences?

One of my friends recently got out of a bad relationship, and she kept sending me videos with titles like “All men are narcissists” and “All men cheat.” It became a constant cycle—she was consuming this content, sharing it, and reinforcing the belief that healthy love wasn’t possible.

I told her, “You need to stop entertaining this content, because your algorithm is going to flood you with more of it.”

Then I asked her, “How does watching these videos actually make you feel?”

She paused for a moment and admitted, “It makes me feel worse.”

So I asked her, “And what do you ultimately want? What’s your desire?”

She said, “I want to be in a healthy relationship.”

So I told her, “Then is it serving you to keep consuming content that reinforces the belief that healthy relationships don’t exist?”

She thought about it and said, “No.”

So I asked, “What would actually help you feel more empowered? What would bring more hope into your life?”

She said, “If I saw more examples of healthy couples.”

And I said, “Exactly. Train your algorithm to show you that. Seek out evidence that what you want is possible.”

This isn’t just about social media—it’s about how our brains work. Let me share the science behind it.

So the Reticular Activating System (RAS) is a network in our brainstem that acts as a filter—it prioritizes what we pay attention to based on what we already believe.

If you tell yourself, “All men are cheaters,” your brain will subconsciously seek out evidence to support that belief. It will notice stories of infidelity, reinforce the idea, and ignore counter-evidence of healthy relationships.

This is confirmation bias—our brain actively looks for proof that aligns with our preexisting beliefs, while discarding anything that contradicts it.

Now let’s talk about Neuroplasticity , the brain’s ability to rewire and form new neural pathways based on repeated thoughts, behaviors, and experiences.If you repeatedly consume negative relationship content, you’re strengthening neural pathways that associate love with betrayal, toxicity, and fear.

But if you intentionally consume content about secure, evolving relationships, your brain will literally rewire itself to believe in healthy love.

Don’t just take my word for it – Studies show that what we consume online affects our emotional state. Research from the Journal of Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking found that exposure to negative content online increases anxiety, stress, and hopelessness.

Conversely, studies from positive psychology research show that consuming uplifting content can increase feelings of optimism, motivation, and even impact our actions.

you know as a relationship coach—and as someone who wants to experience deep, fulfilling love—I make a conscious effort to engage with content that supports my belief in healthy relationships.

I follow therapists, neuroscientists, and couples who share research-backed tools for building love. I study neuroplasticity, relational intelligence, and communication techniques. And because I only interact with content that reflects healthy relationships, my algorithm has adjusted—I don’t even see that limiting content anymore.

And the same is true for life beyond social media.

What we choose to focus on, believe in, and repeatedly expose ourselves to shapes our subconscious mind, our expectations, and ultimately, our lived experience.

So if you want to shift your beliefs and rewire your brain for something more expansive, start by curating your inputs:

  1. Audit Your Content Consumption
    • Take a look at your social media, books, conversations—what themes are dominating?
    • Are you consuming content that reinforces hope and possibility or fear and limitation?
  2. Start Seeking Out the Opposite Evidence
    • If you believe healthy relationships don’t exist, start searching for stories of couples who have done the work and built beautiful partnerships.
    • If you believe financial abundance isn’t possible for you, follow people who have transformed their financial reality through mindset shifts and action.
  3. Engage With What You Want to Believe
    • Every like, comment, and share teaches the algorithm (and your subconscious) what to prioritize.
    • Want to believe in healthy relationships? Follow accounts that highlight secure attachment, growth, and love that evolves over time.
    • Want to believe in abundance? Read stories of people who have shifted their financial narrative.
  4. Be Conscious of the Story You’re Feeding Yourself
    • Just like your social media algorithm, your mind is also running on an algorithm—it prioritizes what you repeatedly give attention to.
    • What are you training your mind to expect?
    • What “mental feed” are you scrolling through every day?

So if you’re stepping into this new season with doubts, ask yourself:

  • How is my life a reflection of my beliefs?
  • Where am I looking for evidence against myself instead of for myself?
  • How can I shift my perspective to align with the reality I want to create?

Taking Inventory of Your Relationships

Now, let’s move on to something even deeper—our relationships.

Spring is the perfect time to take inventory of the people in our lives.

Ask yourself:

  • Are my relationships reciprocal? Do the people in my life pour into me as much as I pour into them?
  • Which relationships feel expansive, and which feel draining?
  • Are there conversations I’ve been avoiding that need to happen?

And let’s take this even further—because self-awareness isn’t just about evaluating others. It’s about reflecting on how we show up in our relationships, too.

  • Am I being a good friend, partner, or family member?
  • Am I showing up for the people I love in a way that aligns with my values?
  • In my romantic relationship, am I bringing the energy I want to receive?

One of my best friends, Alex, is in a relationship, and we often talk about growth within relationships. Because the truth is, relationships aren’t just about what we get—they’re about what we contribute.

If we want to experience deep, fulfilling, soul-nourishing relationships, we have to be willing to do the work—to reflect, to adjust, to communicate, and to show up as the highest version of ourselves.

So as we step into spring, let’s not just clean out our closets—let’s clean out our energy, our minds, and our connections.

So soul-friends, spring is a season of rebirth and renewal. It’s the ideal time to:

  • Release what no longer serves us physically, mentally, and emotionally
  • Create space for new, aligned energy to enter
  • Shift our mindset and subconscious patterns to support our growth

So as you go about your day, I invite you to ask yourself:

  • What am I ready to let go of?
  • What new beliefs, habits, or relationships am I ready to step into?

Because just like nature, we are always evolving. And true transformation begins when we clear the space for something new to emerge.

Thank you for joining me today. If this episode resonated with you, let me know—I’d love to hear what you’re releasing this season. Until next time, take care and keep growing.

Episode 135 – Mind Training: Unlocking Self-Empowerment Through Beliefs and Practices with Ravinder Taylor

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